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Nellie on the Sofa: Free Health, Social Care and Legal Webinars

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What is Nellie on the Sofa?

Nellie on the Sofa is the free webinar and podcast series from Nellie Supports, created for professionals and families who want clear, practical conversations about health, social care and law.

Each episode brings Ben and Kerry Slater together with guest experts from across our professional network, including solicitors, social workers, deputies, safeguarding specialists, healthcare professionals, financial planning specialists and people with lived experience.

The format is informal, but the subject matter is serious. We explore the real-world issues that sit between legal advice, social care practice, professional decision-making and family life, including mental capacity assessments, COP3 reports, social care and case management, safeguarding, deputyship, care planning and Court of Protection practice.

Nellie on the Sofa is designed to make complex topics easier to understand, without removing the professional detail that makes them useful.

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What you can expect from Nellie on the Sofa

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Each episode features a guest with relevant professional, legal, clinical, social care or lived experience. The aim is to move beyond surface-level commentary and explore what these issues look like in practice.

Expert conversations

We talk about subjects that can be legally, ethically and emotionally difficult, including capacity, safeguarding, best interests, deputyship, dementia, care funding, social work practice and family conflict.

Plain-English discussion of complex topics

The sessions are useful for solicitors, social workers, deputies, attorneys, care professionals, case managers, will writers and other professionals who need accessible, practice-relevant learning.

CPD-friendly learning

Nellie on the Sofa is free to attend. You can register for live episodes through Eventbrite and receive the joining details before the session.

Free live access

Missed a live session? Episodes are recorded and made available through YouTube and Spotify, so you can catch up when it suits you. The current page already positions past episodes as available through YouTube and Spotify.

On-demand viewing and listening

Who should watch or attend?

Nellie on the Sofa is for people who work with, support or advise individuals and families where care, capacity, vulnerability, safeguarding or legal decision-making are part of the picture.

It is particularly useful for private client solicitors, Court of Protection solicitors, professional deputies, attorneys, social workers, independent social workers, case managers, care coordinators, safeguarding professionals, will writers, estate planners, financial planners, later-life advisers and healthcare professionals.

Families are also welcome. Many of the topics we discuss are relevant to people supporting a relative with dementia, a learning disability, acquired brain injury, complex care needs, safeguarding concerns or questions about decision-making.

The series also supports professionals who want to understand how services such as mental capacity assessments, COP3 assessments, NHS Continuing Healthcare support, social care and case management and Court reports and expert assessments fit together in practice.

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Topics we cover

Nellie on the Sofa explores the practical overlap between health, social care, law, mental capacity and professional decision-making.

Episodes may cover topics such as mental capacity, safeguarding, best interests, deputyship, dementia, care funding, social work practice, family conflict, financial vulnerability and Court of Protection work.

Many conversations connect directly with the services and resources provided by Nellie Supports, including mental capacity assessments, COP3 assessments, NHS Continuing Healthcare support, social care and case management, Court reports and expert assessments and the wider Nellie Supports guides and resources.

The aim is to make complex subjects easier to follow, while keeping the discussion useful for professionals who need to apply learning in real cases, client work, care planning, legal practice or family support.

Watch or listen back

Missed a live episode? You can still catch up afterwards.

Nellie on the Sofa episodes are recorded and made available so you can watch or listen when it suits you. This makes the series useful whether you prefer to sit down and watch the full conversation, listen while travelling, or return to a topic when it becomes relevant to your work or family situation.

Past episodes include conversations about mental capacity, safeguarding, deputyship, dementia, social work practice, human rights, care planning and the wider overlap between health, social care and law. Many of these discussions link closely with our work in mental capacity assessments, COP3 assessments, social care and case management, NHS Continuing Healthcare support and Court reports and expert assessments.

You can watch previous episodes on YouTube or listen to Nellie on the Sofa as a podcast on Spotify.

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Human Rights & Social Work Practice On the Sofa w' Nellie Supports ft. Sam Baron(Interim CEO, BASW)
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Human Rights & Social Work Practice On the Sofa w' Nellie Supports ft. Sam Baron(Interim CEO, BASW)

In this episode of Nellie on the Sofa, Ben sits down with Sam Baron from the British Association of Social Workers (BASW) for a wide-ranging conversation on what it means to practise social work in 2026 and what needs to change. We discuss why rights-based practice matters more than ever, the pressures social workers face (workload, burnout and caseload allocation), and what needs to change to support safe, ethical, evidence-informed practice. The conversation also explores workplace discrimination and racism, the value of CPD and peer learning, how social work can rebuild trust through community-based practice, and how BASW is responding to emerging issues such as AI. In this recording we cover: 1. Why human rights remain central to social work and what a rights-based approach looks like in practice 2. Workplace realities: workload, burnout, and the lack of national caseload allocation standards 3. Findings on bullying, harassment and racism in the profession and why this often originates in workplaces 4. Community-based and relational practice (“walking the patch”) as a preventive approach that reduces risk 5. CPD and professional development: making learning routine even when time is pressured 6. Professional identity, status and public perception: making good practice visible Whether you're a social worker, team manager, or work alongside social care professionals, this one's worth your time. 🔔 Subscribe for more conversations at the intersection of social work, law, and professional practice. www.nelliesupports.com
Nellie on the Sofa | April 2026 – Safeguarding, Deputies & the Law with Kirsty Findlay
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Nellie on the Sofa | April 2026 – Safeguarding, Deputies & the Law with Kirsty Findlay

This month we're joined by Kirsty Findlay — independent social worker, former NHS senior safeguarding practitioner, and co-founder of Beyond the File. With a background spanning law, forensic social work, youth justice, Court of Protection, and domestic homicide reviews, Kirsty brings a rare and powerful mix of legal and social care knowledge to the sofa. We cover a huge amount of ground in this one — from what safeguarding actually means for professional deputies and solicitors, to how the Mental Capacity Act can (and can't) be used when vulnerable people are at risk. In this episode we discuss: - Kirsty's journey from law to social work - How MARAC works and why it doesn't yet have a statutory footing - Domestic homicide reviews, safeguarding adult reviews, and why "lessons will be learned" isn't always the eye-roll moment the media makes it. - Care leavers, domestic abuse, and the Government's new review into their deaths - Safeguarding responsibilities for professional deputies and solicitors — including the Care Act, the SRA, and the OPG - What to do when you have a gut feeling (or "professional ick") about financial exploitation but no evidence - The difference between capacity concerns and safeguarding thresholds — and why the MCA cannot be used as a workaround - The recently published Court of Protection case JW 2026 — and the complex intersection of domestic abuse, coercive control, and mental capacity assessment - The child safeguarding continuum: universal services → early help → child in need → child protection Whether you're a deputy, solicitor, social worker, or anyone who works with vulnerable adults and children — this one is essential listening. 🔔 Subscribe so you never miss an episode of Nellie on the Sofa. Kirsty Findlay | Beyond the File: www.beyondthefile.com Nellie Supports: www.nelliesupports.com Timestamps: 00:00 – Welcome & introducing Kirsty ~02:00 – Kirsty's background: law, America, and retraining as a social worker ~03:00 – Forensic social work explained ~04:00 – Beyond the File: what they do ~06:00 – MARAC: what it is and how it works ~12:00 – Domestic homicide reviews and safeguarding adult reviews ~17:00 – "Lessons will be learned" — what really happens after tragedies ~20:00 – The Bronson Battersby case ~24:00 – Care leavers and domestic abuse ~31:00 – Safeguarding duties for deputies and solicitors ~36:00 – Data protection vs safeguarding: the myth that stops information sharing ~40:00 – Financial vulnerability, sudden inheritance, and undue influence ~42:00 – Child safeguarding: the continuum of need ~51:00 – Mental Capacity Act — what it can and can't do in safeguarding ~54:00 – JW 2026: the Court of Protection case on coercive control and capacity
Nellie On the Sofa with Richard Russell | Mental Capacity and Dementia: The Perception Gap
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Nellie On the Sofa with Richard Russell | Mental Capacity and Dementia: The Perception Gap

In this special lived-experience episode of Nellie On the Sofa, Richard Russell joins us to explore how dementia affects real-world decision-making and why mental capacity can look “intact” in conversation while being fundamentally impaired in practice. Drawing on detailed lived experience of caring for his mum, who lives with vascular dementia and diabetes, Richard and Ben unpack the “perception gap” that often appears in capacity work: where someone can describe individual steps (medication, blood glucose checks, meal planning) but cannot integrate them into a safe, coherent plan of action. This session is essential viewing for solicitors, deputies, will writers, social workers and safeguarding professionals working with capacity-related decisions. Topics covered include: Diabetes management and loss of capacity: when “knowing the steps” isn’t enough Mental capacity assessment practice and why early red flags can be missed The role of carers, social workers and safeguarding in real-world evidence gathering Documentation and communication: how families and professionals can evidence concerns clearly Key takeaways: In dementia cases, standardised questions alone can be misleading without collateral input and observable evidence (missed meds, unsafe cooking, falls). Dementia-related false beliefs and accusations can trigger safeguarding processes and place emotional strain on attorneys and carers. 📌 Learn more about Nellie Supports: https://www.nelliesupports.com 📩 Contact: nellie@nelliesupports.com This recording is for general information and training. It is not legal advice. #NellieSupports #OnTheSofa #MentalCapacity
Disputed Deputyship Applications | On the Sofa with Nellie Supports ft. Stuart Parris
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Disputed Deputyship Applications | On the Sofa with Nellie Supports ft. Stuart Parris

In this episode of On the Sofa with Nellie Supports, Stuart Parris explores how contentious deputyship applications arise and how the Court of Protection approaches disputes about who should act for P. We discuss the most common drivers of conflict (objections and cross-applications), what happens in practice before a matter reaches trial, and how judges weigh capacity and best interests across Property & Financial Affairs and Health & Welfare. Key Topics Covered: - How contentious deputyship applications arise and how courts resolve them - The key differences between LPAs and deputyships - When professional (panel) deputies are preferred over family members - How capacity is assessed — and what happens when someone regains it - The role of local authorities in safeguarding, and how families can push back - Health and welfare deputyships and when courts make decision-specific orders instead Who should watch: Court of Protection and private client solicitors, professional and lay deputies/attorneys, social workers, safeguarding teams, and anyone involved in deputyship disputes. Learn more about Nellie Supports: https://www.nelliesupports.com Contact: nellie@nelliesupports.com or call 03339875118 Disclaimer: *This recording is for general information only and is not legal advice*. #NellieSupports #OnTheSofa #CourtOfProtection #Deputyship #MentalCapacity #BestInterests #Safeguarding #PrivateClientLaw

Join the next live episode

Nellie on the Sofa is free to attend live, and each session is designed to feel like a professional conversation rather than a formal lecture.

 

You can register for upcoming episodes through Eventbrite and receive the joining details before the session. Live episodes give you the opportunity to hear the discussion as it happens, follow new topics as they emerge and stay connected with the wider Nellie Supports professional community.

The series is especially useful if your work involves mental capacity assessments, Court of Protection practice, social care and case management, NHS Continuing Healthcare, safeguarding, deputyship, private client work or care planning.

Whether you are a solicitor, deputy, social worker, case manager, financial planner, healthcare professional or family member, you are welcome to join the conversation.

Why Nellie on the Sofa matters

The issues discussed on Nellie on the Sofa rarely sit neatly in one professional box. A question about care may also involve legal authority. A concern about finances may raise safeguarding questions. A decision about where someone lives may involve family conflict, professional risk, social care law and mental capacity

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The series brings different voices into the same conversation. Solicitors, deputies, social workers, care professionals, financial planners and people with lived experience often see the same situation from different angles. Nellie on the Sofa creates space for those perspectives to be heard together.

The aim is to help professionals and families think more clearly about complex issues such as COP3 reports, safeguarding, deputyship, social care and case management, care funding and Court reports and expert assessments.

It is informal, accessible and free to watch, but it is grounded in the real challenges that arise when health, social care, law and family life overlap.

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • Nellie on the Sofa is a free webinar and podcast series from Nellie Supports. It explores the overlap between health, social care, law, safeguarding, mental capacity, care funding and professional decision-making.

  • It is for professionals, families and anyone interested in practical conversations about care, capacity, safeguarding and law. It is especially relevant for solicitors, deputies, attorneys, social workers, case managers, financial planners, will writers, care professionals and families supporting someone with care or capacity concerns.

  • Yes. Nellie on the Sofa is free to attend live and free to watch or listen to afterwards.

  • You can register for upcoming live episodes through Eventbrite. After registering, you should receive the joining details and reminders before the session.

  • Yes. Episodes are made available afterwards through YouTube and Spotify, so you can catch up at a time that suits you.

  • Topics include mental capacity assessments, COP3 reports, safeguarding, deputyship, dementia, NHS Continuing Healthcare, social care and case management, care planning, Court of Protection practice and private client vulnerability.

  • Yes. The sessions are designed to be useful for professional learning and reflection. Professionals should check their own regulator, employer or professional body requirements when recording CPD.

  • No. Nellie on the Sofa is for general information, discussion and professional learning. It is not legal advice, clinical advice, financial advice or a substitute for advice on the facts of a specific case.

  • Yes. You can contact Nellie Supports with suggestions for future topics or guests.

Join us on the sofa

Nellie on the Sofa is where complex health, social care and legal topics become practical conversations.

Join a live episode, watch or listen back, or explore the wider Nellie Supports training and resources hub for more webinars, conferences and professional learning.

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