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Est. 2019

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Nellie on the Sofa – Free Health, Social Care & Legal Webinars

Nellie on the Sofa is our free monthly webinar and podcast series exploring key issues across health, social care, and law. Each month Ben Slater is joined by professionals from our trusted network — including solicitors, social workers, and healthcare experts — to share practical insights, case updates, and real-world stories. From Court of Protection practice to care planning, and from clinical negligence to family support, Nellie on the Sofa brings expert knowledge straight to your screen in a relaxed, accessible way.

Ben Slater from Nellie Supports and Sean McCullough, Director at Owl Guardian Services, sitting on the sofa during a Nellie on the Sofa webinar recording.

Nellie on the Sofa is designed to make big conversations about health, social care, and law accessible and engaging. Each month, Kerry and Ben Slater sit down with guest experts from our professional network — including solicitors, deputies, healthcare professionals, and social workers — to share practical insights and real-world experiences.

In every episode, you can expect:

  • Expert interviews with leaders in health, social care, and law

  • Plain-English discussion of complex topics, from Court of Protection to care planning

  • CPD-friendly content for solicitors, social workers, and health professionals

  • Practical advice and updates that families can also apply in daily life

  • Free access anytime on YouTube or Spotify

What you can expect

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Nellie on the Sofa is live every month, free to attend, and open to all. To secure your place, simply register via Eventbrite. You’ll receive the joining link and reminder emails directly from Eventbrite before each session.

 

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Join Nellie on the Sofa

Join Our Next Live Episode

Missed a live session? No problem. All Nellie on the Sofa webinars are recorded and available to watch on our YouTube channel. Browse the archive below to catch up on expert conversations covering health, social care, and legal topics.

Catch Up on Past Episodes

Nellie on the Sofa | April 2026 – Safeguarding, Deputies & the Law with Kirsty Findlay
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Nellie on the Sofa | April 2026 – Safeguarding, Deputies & the Law with Kirsty Findlay
This month we're joined by Kirsty Findlay — independent social worker, former NHS senior safeguarding practitioner, and co-founder of Beyond the File. With a background spanning law, forensic social work, youth justice, Court of Protection, and domestic homicide reviews, Kirsty brings a rare and powerful mix of legal and social care knowledge to the sofa. We cover a huge amount of ground in this one — from what safeguarding actually means for professional deputies and solicitors, to how the Mental Capacity Act can (and can't) be used when vulnerable people are at risk. In this episode we discuss: - Kirsty's journey from law to social work - How MARAC works and why it doesn't yet have a statutory footing - Domestic homicide reviews, safeguarding adult reviews, and why "lessons will be learned" isn't always the eye-roll moment the media makes it. - Care leavers, domestic abuse, and the Government's new review into their deaths - Safeguarding responsibilities for professional deputies and solicitors — including the Care Act, the SRA, and the OPG - What to do when you have a gut feeling (or "professional ick") about financial exploitation but no evidence - The difference between capacity concerns and safeguarding thresholds — and why the MCA cannot be used as a workaround - The recently published Court of Protection case JW 2026 — and the complex intersection of domestic abuse, coercive control, and mental capacity assessment - The child safeguarding continuum: universal services → early help → child in need → child protection Whether you're a deputy, solicitor, social worker, or anyone who works with vulnerable adults and children — this one is essential listening. 🔔 Subscribe so you never miss an episode of Nellie on the Sofa. Kirsty Findlay | Beyond the File: www.beyondthefile.com Nellie Supports: www.nelliesupports.com Timestamps: 00:00 – Welcome & introducing Kirsty ~02:00 – Kirsty's background: law, America, and retraining as a social worker ~03:00 – Forensic social work explained ~04:00 – Beyond the File: what they do ~06:00 – MARAC: what it is and how it works ~12:00 – Domestic homicide reviews and safeguarding adult reviews ~17:00 – "Lessons will be learned" — what really happens after tragedies ~20:00 – The Bronson Battersby case ~24:00 – Care leavers and domestic abuse ~31:00 – Safeguarding duties for deputies and solicitors ~36:00 – Data protection vs safeguarding: the myth that stops information sharing ~40:00 – Financial vulnerability, sudden inheritance, and undue influence ~42:00 – Child safeguarding: the continuum of need ~51:00 – Mental Capacity Act — what it can and can't do in safeguarding ~54:00 – JW 2026: the Court of Protection case on coercive control and capacity
Nellie On the Sofa with Richard Russell | Mental Capacity and Dementia: The Perception Gap
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Nellie On the Sofa with Richard Russell | Mental Capacity and Dementia: The Perception Gap
In this special lived-experience episode of Nellie On the Sofa, Richard Russell joins us to explore how dementia affects real-world decision-making and why mental capacity can look “intact” in conversation while being fundamentally impaired in practice. Drawing on detailed lived experience of caring for his mum, who lives with vascular dementia and diabetes, Richard and Ben unpack the “perception gap” that often appears in capacity work: where someone can describe individual steps (medication, blood glucose checks, meal planning) but cannot integrate them into a safe, coherent plan of action. This session is essential viewing for solicitors, deputies, will writers, social workers and safeguarding professionals working with capacity-related decisions. Topics covered include: Diabetes management and loss of capacity: when “knowing the steps” isn’t enough Mental capacity assessment practice and why early red flags can be missed The role of carers, social workers and safeguarding in real-world evidence gathering Documentation and communication: how families and professionals can evidence concerns clearly Key takeaways: In dementia cases, standardised questions alone can be misleading without collateral input and observable evidence (missed meds, unsafe cooking, falls). Dementia-related false beliefs and accusations can trigger safeguarding processes and place emotional strain on attorneys and carers. 📌 Learn more about Nellie Supports: https://www.nelliesupports.com 📩 Contact: nellie@nelliesupports.com This recording is for general information and training. It is not legal advice. #NellieSupports #OnTheSofa #MentalCapacity
Disputed Deputyship Applications | On the Sofa with Nellie Supports ft. Stuart Parris
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Disputed Deputyship Applications | On the Sofa with Nellie Supports ft. Stuart Parris
In this episode of On the Sofa with Nellie Supports, Stuart Parris explores how contentious deputyship applications arise and how the Court of Protection approaches disputes about who should act for P. We discuss the most common drivers of conflict (objections and cross-applications), what happens in practice before a matter reaches trial, and how judges weigh capacity and best interests across Property & Financial Affairs and Health & Welfare. Key Topics Covered: - How contentious deputyship applications arise and how courts resolve them - The key differences between LPAs and deputyships - When professional (panel) deputies are preferred over family members - How capacity is assessed — and what happens when someone regains it - The role of local authorities in safeguarding, and how families can push back - Health and welfare deputyships and when courts make decision-specific orders instead Who should watch: Court of Protection and private client solicitors, professional and lay deputies/attorneys, social workers, safeguarding teams, and anyone involved in deputyship disputes. Learn more about Nellie Supports: https://www.nelliesupports.com Contact: nellie@nelliesupports.com or call 03339875118 Disclaimer: *This recording is for general information only and is not legal advice*. #NellieSupports #OnTheSofa #CourtOfProtection #Deputyship #MentalCapacity #BestInterests #Safeguarding #PrivateClientLaw
Nellie On the Sofa: AI, Legal Tech & the Future of Private Client Practice with Andy Hitchon (LEAP)
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Nellie On the Sofa: AI, Legal Tech & the Future of Private Client Practice with Andy Hitchon (LEAP)
Technology in the legal industry is moving fast. In this session, former private client partner turned legal-tech lead Andy Hitchon gives us a glimpse into how AI can support your business as a legal professional and not harm it: where AI genuinely helps today, how digital wills and remote ID processes are shaping practice, and the risks firms must manage to stay compliant and defensible. In this episode you’ll learn: • Practical AI use cases for private client and Court of Protection work: triage, precedent/drafting support, LPA/CoP paperwork etc • Digital wills and e-signing: current position, capacity and safeguarding considerations, witnessing pitfalls, and when paper still wins • Risk and Governance: confidentiality, data protection, audit trails, model bias, supervision and controls Who should watch: Private client and CoP solicitors, deputies/attorneys, practice managers, and compliance leads Explore support from Nellie Supports: https://www.nelliesupports.com Contact us: nellie@nelliesupports.com If this helped, please like, subscribe and tap the bell for future episodes. #OnTheSofa #LegalTech #PrivateClient #CourtOfProtection
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Prefer to listen on the go? Every Nellie on the Sofa episode is also available as a podcast on Spotify. Whether you’re commuting, working out, or catching up between meetings, you can take the conversation with you anywhere.

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